Chronic Pain & Stress: Why They’re Secretly Best Friends

If you’ve been dealing with chronic pain, you’ve probably been told a lot of things. 

“Strengthen your core.”
“Fix your posture.”
“Stretch more.”
“Foam roll harder.”

And maybe you’ve done all of that… yet the pain keeps coming back like an annoying ex.

Here’s the thing:

Pain that doesn’t resolve is rarely just physical.

Let’s talk about the missing piece — stress — and why Chinese Medicine sees chronic pain very differently. 

The Western View of Chronic Pain

In the Western model, chronic pain is often blamed on things like:

  • An old injury that never healed properly

  • Weak or imbalanced muscles

  • Poor posture or biomechanics

And while these factors can matter, they don’t explain why:

  • Pain moves around

  • Pain flares during stressful times

  • Pain returns even when scans look “normal”

This is where Chinese Medicine steps in and says, “Okay… but what’s actually happening inside the body?”

What Chinese Medicine Says About Pain 

In Traditional Chinese Medicine, pain has a very simple explanation:

“If there is free flow, there is no pain. If there is pain, there is not free flow.”
— Nei Jing

Pain means something is stuck

That “something” might be:

  • Qi

  • Blood

  • Nervous system signals

  • Or all of the above

And one of the biggest things that causes things to get stuck?

You guessed it. Stress.

Stress = Tight, Stuck Energy

When stress becomes chronic (hello modern life 👋), the body tightens. In TCM, stress most strongly affects the Liver system, which is responsible for:

  • Smooth flow of Qi

  • Adaptability

  • Emotional regulation

  • Muscle and tendon flexibility

When this system gets overloaded, tension often shows up in very familiar places:

  • Neck and shoulders

  • Jaw and face

  • Chest and diaphragm (that “can’t take a full breath” feeling)

  • Hips and lower back

Sound familiar?

What Happens When Things Stay Stuck

When Qi doesn’t move properly for a long time, the body adapts — but not in a helpful way. Over time, stagnation can lead to:

  • Muscle guarding (your body bracing without you realising)

  • Reduced circulation

  • Inflammation

  • Heightened pain sensitivity

Your nervous system stays switched on, like a smoke alarm that won’t stop chirping. 

At this point, pain isn’t just about tissues — it’s about protection.

The Pain–Stress Loop (AKA the Exhausting Bit)

Here’s where things really spiral: 

Pain creates stress
Stress creates more tension
More tension creates more pain

Round and round it goes. 

This is why chronic pain often feels:

  • Stuck

  • Frustrating

  • Draining

  • Emotionally heavy

 It’s not weakness.
It’s a nervous system that hasn’t felt safe enough to let go.

Why Stretching Isn’t Always the Answer 

If stress is driving the tension:

  • Muscles don’t easily relax

  • Foam rolling can feel awful

  • Stretching gives only short-lived relief

 The body isn’t resisting because it’s stubborn — it’s resisting because it thinks it needs to protect you.

Force doesn’t create safety. Regulation does.

How Acupuncture Helps Chronic Pain

Acupuncture works on a few important levels at once:

  • Calms and regulates the nervous system

  • Moves stagnant Qi and Blood

  • Releases deep holding patterns

  • Signals to the body that it’s safe again

When the body feels safe, it naturally softens. And when things soften, flow returns.

Pain doesn’t have to be fought — it can be unwound. 

Healing Happens in Layers

With chronic pain, we’re rarely just treating a sore muscle. We’re often working with:

  • The physical pain

  • The stress response

  • The emotional load the body has been carrying

True healing happens when all layers are acknowledged, not ignored.

The Takeaway

Chronic pain is not all in your head.
But your stress system is involved.

If your body feels tight, reactive, or stuck —
it may not need more pushing…
it may need help restoring flow.

Take action today: Book an acupuncture session at Wild Heart Acupuncture and start helping your body feel safe, relaxed, and flowing again.

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